If I am Judging, I am Not Understanding
There are a lot opinions about judging others, and I would like to offer my opinion on the matter. If I am judging, I am not understanding.
Here’s a truth I have found, and that I try to adhere to every day.
If I am judging, then I don’t understand.
That’s all there is to it! That is the truth, and it is a generalizable truth, applicable to us all.
Now, I understand that some may try and argue this with me, but here is another truth:
Sometimes people don’t understand that they don’t understand, so they continue to believe their judgments.
If this is the case for yourself or for someone in your life, give it time, more life experience, and do your therapeutic own work to its depths, and you will come to an understanding of just how true the initial statement is.
And welcome to the beauty of living in TRUTH! There is no more freeing of a place.
For more information on judging, please see:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/working-through-shame/201907/the-toxicity-of-gossip
